Near Death Experiences: Preset Exits


Ewa Foley (pronounced Eva), my dear friend and organizer in Poland bicycled quickly and confidently to her morning yoga class in Warsaw last month. It only took an instant miscalculation for her bike to hit the curb, catapulting her into the air in a spectacular crash. “It really does all happen in slow motion,” she told me on the phone the next day. “Everything was so clear. ‘This might be it. I can leave now,’ I thought, as I flew toward the concrete.” (Her only son had died in much the same way years before, having been thrown headfirst from his motorcycle.) “In the long moment that I was airborne I decided that I didn’t want to die. Automatically I turned away so the impact would be on the side of my head and not my face. I hadn’t worn a helmet that day.”

As we spoke on FaceTime Ewa told me about the skull fracture, the concussion, and showed me the huge gash in her head. “The headache is terrible. I’m so very weak. But it feels as if my ‘assemblage points’ are readjusting, my internal grid-work is being reorganized. It was an exit point from life that I wasn’t ready to take. It now feels that my life will be very different going forward. I’ll live it more for me and less for everyone else.”

Car-with-starsMany years ago my brother John was to climb Mt. Washington in New Hampshire—in the winter. It has some of the worst winds and weather in North America. For some reason I was uneasy with it, even though John is an experienced mountain adventurer. I even met him for a drink before, uncharacteristically saying, “Let’s get together in case I never see you again.” Now I realize that I sensed he was coming up on what I call a ‘pre-programmed exit point’. These are times in our life where we can easily go/die or stay/live.  A few weeks later while I was in Europe teaching, I got a message from my family telling me that John had been in a terrible, high-speed, head-on collision in which a car was barreling down the interstate highway going in the wrong direction. The other driver was killed. My brother walked away with fairly minor injuries. So, you see, I sensed that John could soon die—though I thought it was from mountain climbing…a climb he never did. Luckily for him and those of us who love him, he passed through this close brush with death relatively unscathed. As a result, John feels life more deeply and knows that he had important things to do.

soul ascedingIn another incident, I was leading a group tour in Turkey when one of the travelers, Rel, ‘died’ on the bus. Her heart stopped, she slumped over with staring eyes open… Yet, after a few minutes she returned from the other side, saying she had seen ‘Death’ coming for her and she decided she didn’t want to stay there. Once she had revived, I told her that she had just passed through an exit/death point that she didn’t take. “You will live to be a very old woman,” I confidently channeled to her. It was as if she was now on a new life-line, having made a quantum shift. Later she told me that before the trip her daughter had said, “Mom, you will either not come back or you will come back very different.” Rel wrote to me that even though her life looked the same from the outside, everything about her had changed after her trip with us and this experience. 

I have friends who recently lost their 27 year old daughter in a car crash. Later, through mediums in contact with the girl’s soul they learned that at a soul level she chose this end, as she would have soon been going through a long and difficult disease that would be a tremendous burden on her and her family. She chose to leave suddenly to spare her family a drawn out illness. In other words, at a soul level she chose her exit point.

On this topic,’ MARK’ channeled this: 


“Everyone has some pre-programmed exit points in their life where they can leave. There are many times where you’ve passed what could be a pre-programmed exit point. For instance, you got home safely when you shouldn’t have been driving when you were a teenager. There comes a time where there is an exit point, and your soul knows it. In some cases your soul picks a disease or an accident that will get you out at the time you’re supposed to exit. In astrology it’s very important the moment you are born and where you are born. Exit points are the same. In the bigger picture it is very particular when you die. A disease or an accident or an incident will happen so that you will take an exit point that has the right qualities for your entrance into the world beyond; just like your astrological sign indicates your qualities for your entrance into this world.”

 “At some level you’ll pick the disease that most suits when you need to go and also what you need to do. Some people choose a heart attack because they don’t need emotional preparation  time. Other people choose a long illness, so they and their families can come to grips with their death. There’s no one answer for why people choose accidents or certain illnesses that result in death, but it’s all orchestrated at a much higher, elegant level.”

‘MARK’ wants us to see however that even these so-called ‘pre-programmed exit points’ still respond to free will and are not predestined:

Predetermination is not an essence of the soul. Destiny might be likened to having draft architectural plans that you know will change a lot. It’s an idea that you’re going to build a house and not a factory that the soul comes in with. How that soul builds the house is up to it. At a broad brush there is a master plan, but all of the details are left up to you. You can take this exit point or that exit point. You could have been born here or born three weeks later and everything’s different. You could have moved somewhere else with your free will and met a different person and had different children. What’s possible is always changing spontaneously in the bigger world, and there is no right path. We’ve often said that the Universe would not make only one right path, and all other ways are the wrong path. When you are right with who you are, all paths are right and all destinies are equally magnificent. You could be a carpenter or a president and not one is greater than the other when you are grounded in yourself.  There is no predetermination.”

About Jonette

PastedGraphic-2Jonette is a spiritual adventurer, and modern-day shaman who leads spiritual tours to power places around the globe. She is a gifted channel, oracle, and author of the internationally best-selling books “The Eagle and the Condor” and “Soul Body Fusion®.” She is founder of the Soul Body Fusion® method for healing and beyond. With her guide “Mark” she teaches people to reach multi-dimensional and quantum states of consciousness.,

Copyright 2016 Jonette Crowley

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